It really doesn’t matter what you want to call it. Bend Over Boyfriends or Male Anal Sex are both the same things and NO… it’s not gay!

Okay yes, gay males do bend over and have anal intercourse  but that’s not what we are talking about here.

The act of male anal sex can not only be exciting but can also take your relationship to a whole new level of pleasure both for the male and the female as well.

Let’s take a look at what is involved and see if it is right for you and your lover…

• 1) The main thing is Communication and this hold true for both male and female anal sex… if it doesn’t feel good or right then tell your partner!  Communication begins outside of the sheets.  Talking to your partner about your wants and desires before you get into bed will take the stress and pressure out of the equation.  If you understand what each person wants you can just focus on giving and receiving  pleasure.

• 2) Patience:  Anal sex takes time!  This is worth repeating… Anal sex takes time!  A person must be in the mood and ready to receive anal sex before something is just shoved in.  Message, oral sex, a long bath or shower together, touching and so on all help set the tone and lead up to the ultimate goal of anal penetration.  This is true for both the male and the female.

• 3) Lube:  Anal Lube or in the least a thick lube is necessary for any type of anal play.  The anus is not self lubricating and needs a good amount of lubrication.  You should however, never use an oil based lubricant when having anal play.  The oil can clog the pores and cause problems.  Water based lubricants are the best and are also safe to use with anal toys and condoms.  We have several types that we offer here on the site.

Anal pleasure for a male can be just as fun as it is for a female.  The anus has thousands of nerve endings that if treated right can provide a whole host of exciting feelings.

Couples engaged in heterosexual sex where the female inserts fingers, toys, strap-on and other objects into her male sexual partner can be extremely thrilling.

So Ladies, let’s examine some of the things you can do with your Bend Over Boyfriend (This goes for husbands too!)…

You can use your tongue… yes, it’s okay.  It can be a super turn-on for a man when his lover is using her tongue to lick his rear during oral sex.  So what should you do?  First, you can use a dental dam which is like a condom but for oral sex.  (Please note that even when clean the anus and surrounding tissue will have thousands of bacteria which can be harmful and can make you sick.)  As you are licking his testicles (balls) you just move a little lower and this can create a huge amount of excitement for the male.  There are also flavored lubes that can be placed on the dental dam to promote licking.

Here is where the lube will need to be used…

Finger play, just the act of rubbing the anal area without any insertion can create massive pleasure.  If you do insert your finger into the anal opening do it slowly to allow the muscles to relax before you move deeper.  Lots of lubrication should be used at this point.

Anal toys, just like for women anal toys can be used but unlike women men have a prostate which if probed with a finger or anal toy designed for prostate play can cause a very strong orgasm to occur.  This is sometimes know as the male g-spot.

Using a strap-on toys can give the female a sense of power and dominance while  allowing her to penetrate her partner in the same way that he can penetrate her.  This can happen both face to face and in the bent over positions.  Once again lots of lube should be used.  The prostate can also be stimulated during this type of intercourse as well.

For more information from an expert in male anal sex you should check out the video Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Pleasure For Men.  Tristan Taormino busts myths and challenges stereotypes about male sexuality as she sheds light on one of the most important erogenous zones for men.  This is a great video packed with over 2 hour of information and was the 2010 AVN Award Nominee for Best Educational Release.

Also,check out the red rider and other anal toys at our store Porn Star Vibes.

These are just a few of the questions that we have received about Anal Eaze Lube.

Let’s start by telling you what it’s made of.  I will list every ingredient on the Ingredients list starting with the Active Ingredient which is Benzocaine. 

Benzocaine is a local anesthetic commonly used as a topical pain reliever or similar to what your dentist might use to numb your gums.  It works to numb the anus in the same way.  Some people need to rub more and others may need to rub less lube to get that numb feeling.  It’s a personal preference.

The other ingredients are: Glycerin, PEG 32, PEG-8, Aloa Vera, Methylparaben, DMDM Hydantion, Diazolindy Urea, Flavor

Anal Eaze Lube is made by PipeDream Products Part number PD9804-62 and they have been making sexually related adult products for the past 20 year.

Why is it cherry flavored? I placed this question to Pipedream and am currently waiting for their response but my view is this…  There is a practice currently known as ATM or Ass to Mouth.  This is commonly done when the male has anal sex with his partner and then pulls out and puts his cock into his partners mouth.  Another way might be analingus  or rimming where the giving partner licks the anus and the area around the anus of the receiving partner.  Both can warrant the addition of a flavored lubricant into the act.  Thus the cherry flavoring.  However, Anal Eaze Lube is also a desensitizer so in the process the mouth and tongue can also become desensitized so???  That’s my view anyway.  Plus the cherry flavor is very mild so that doesn’t help much.  The cherry scent however is very strong and may also help the experience.

What it feels like is a numbing of the area.  The more you use the more it numbs, up to a certain point.  Remember, take it slow.  You may still feel pain and that is a good thing.  Pain lets you know something is not right.

Is it safe? Yes, but if you have any problems stop using it right away and contact your doctor.  Some people who may have allergies to  Novocaine should not use this product and may want to seek a natural product.  Remember anal sex is about communication.  Talk with your partner, take it slow, use lots of lube and have fun!

Also, when having any type of sexual act condoms are recommended.

We created an adult toy store selling vibrators, lubes, condoms, anal toys, sexy wear and sex toys for men.

It’s called Porn Star Vibes and you can visit us at http://www.pornstarvibes.com.

It’s a great looking website (If I say so myself!) and we are in the process of updating the look feel and navigation of the site.  We currently have a little over 10,000 products on the site for sale and if they are not available they should not appear or in the least will say “out of stock”.  That’s the plan anyway!

And just so you know we are now working with many different companies to get products so the shipping prices vary on what you buy.  If you find that the shipping is to much check around because we might have the same type of item from the same company and it could lower your shipping cost.

Also, since you are coming from this website we are giving out a coupon for a limited time of $5.00 Off ($25.00 Order Minimum) the coupon code is “ANALEASEDIRECT“  you will need to enter this code to get the discount when you go to check out.

As stated this is a limited offer and expires on 2/14/2012 Valentine’s Day  (Hint, hint, wink, wink!).

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Anal Eaze (Anal Lube) Cherry Flavored Desensitizing Anal Lubricant in the 1.5 oz squeeze tube.

This is the 2nd largest tube of Anal Eaze sold on the market today.

Used for desensitizing the rectal / anal area prior to insertion for anal sex and creating a more comfortable experience.  This is a Unisex product and can be used for both males and females.

Some people have experienced  the numbing effect on the penis so condoms are recommended during intercourse.  We supply 3 super sensitive condoms with every purchase along with a Free 30 minute card to HotMovies.com.

The biggest thing with anal sex is communication between the partners.  If it hurts slow down, lube up and let your partner know.   As with any sexual act the receiving partner should be warmed up with foreplay and anal play for an easy and pleasurable, sexual encounter.

Active ingredient: Benzocaine

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Celeste Star

Celeste has been modeling for years and these pictures are from a private photo shot that we did with Celeste back in 2005.  This is the first time that these images have been shown to the public.  Celeste has since gone on to be a regular model for the company PipeDream Products which are the makers of Anal Eaze Lube, as well as an actress in several lesbian and solo movies which can be found on HotMovies.com.  We will not be posting fully nude pictures at this time but plan to in the near future, so check back with us for more.  Otherwise, enjoy the ones that are posted and check out her movies by following this link… Celeste Star @ HotMovies.com.

Also as a reminder, with any purchase of Anal Eaze Lube  at AnalEaseLube.com you get a gift card for 30 minutes of FREE movies at Hot Movies.

Enjoy and thanks for your interest!

7 Tips For More Pleasurable and Passionate Lovemaking

Written by Michael Webb

Need some ideas to make your lovemaking phenomenal?

These 7 tips should give you plenty of ideas to make your midnight sessions more hot, steamy and passionate, starting today…

1. Become more sensual

While most men want to ‘get the job done’ and reach the goal of orgasm, for women it’s more about the journey. Women love to reach climax as much as men do, but they also love a sensual stroke from your hand across their leg.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner and can even intensify
their orgasm.

2. Try positions proven to increase pleasure

For women: The reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top. This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

For men: Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because they have full control over movement and pleasure.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. They’re fun, sexy and have a
lot of replay value.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and  unleash some creativity!

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you’ll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

4. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to  set the mood of their lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much?

5. Give them a sexy massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable. Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss,
caress and slowly transition “under the sheets” where a massage of another kind can take place.

And no, you don’t need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.  And don’t forget the message oils!

6. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.

Ladies: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.

Gentlemen: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.

7. Use household items

It makes sense that to spice things up you need to do something different. The more unique the experience, the more it fires up your lovemaking.  Well, just recently I’ve found one of the very BEST ways to keep things passionate and exciting. It’s by using household items.

Huh? That’s right! There are literally 100′s of household items you can play with in your house. Everything from a rolling pin for a massage, ice for a cool sensation, cards for a naughty game or sheepskin that feels soft under your skin.

By dedicating time to finding new items, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary lovemaking for longer, and keep it that way. And while positions and techniques get old quickly, these items add a NEW LEVEL to your lovemaking that normal lovemaking just can’t do. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.

In fact, unlike all the other suggestions, using household items for foreplay and intercourse proves to be the most unique and powerful way to spice up lovemaking.

About the Author:

Oprah’s Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of  “Sex All Around The House – Using Everyday Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life,” helping you get in the mood, prolong the passion and create totally new sensations. Handpicked from over 1500 tips. To read more, visit:

So, you have been thinking about having anal sex and you found this site because you need the right lube but, do you really know what you’re doing?

Anal sex can be fun and exciting and very pleasurable if it is done correctly.

Just like everything in life you need to know and understand what you are doing before you do it.  You need a teacher to show you how to do it correctly, safely and so you get the most pleasure out of the experience.  Here is a link to several movies that are designed to do just that… teach you how to have anal sex.

With videos that include Tristan Taormino’s Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women, Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Sex, Nina Hartley’s Advanced Guide To Anal Sex For Men And Women, How To Perform A Rimjob (The Fine Art Of Analingus), Bend Over Boyfriend and many more.

You will learn everything that there is to know about anal pleasure.  Plus as a special right now when you sign up you will get an extra 10 minutes free by following this link.  And if you purchase a tube of Anal Eaze Lube we will also send you a card for 30 Free Minutes of Hot Movies.

Thanks for reading and we will soon be adding additional products for your sexual pleasures.